Darius Gramley

Darius Gramley passed away September 18, 2020 in his home in Harlingen, TX. He spent his last days surrounded by family, love and a lifetime of memories.

Darius was born to Raymond and Emma Gramley in 1946. He is survived by his wife, Marsha Gramley; his sister, Lorraine Morello; his children, Kial (Val) Gramley and Lindsey (Paul) Souders; stepchildren Kelly (Patrick) Minor and Jacob (Sara) Howell; his grandchildren, Noah Gramley and Natalia Gonzalez; Kya and Tegan Souders; and Ryan, Colton and Jackson Minor. He is also survived by nieces, nephews, cousins, friends; and his ex-wife Denise Gramley.

Darius was a man devoted to the joyful side of life and contributing to the community. He is known for starting and running Arroyo MX Park, a motocross track in Harlingen. He also coached many soccer teams and was the president of the Arroyo Youth Soccer Association. He will be remembered by all for his hospitality and his giving nature. The motto of his life was "Mi casa es su casa".

He lived a life of adventure. In his youth, Darius was an avid water skier. He went on to serve in the US Navy as a pilot. Darius later became a passionate motorcycle racer, winning the Grand National Champion in the Houston Astrodome in 1980, '81 and '82 and finishing 7th place in the Loretta Lynn's National Motocross Championship. As a father, Darius focused his passion on coaching his children's soccer teams, leading his daughter's team, the Dynamites, to a state championship in 1999.  In retirement, Darius was never far from a pool table, playing on several APA league teams.

A celebration of Darius’ life will be held on June 5, 2021 at 10:00 a.m. at Buck Ashcraft San Benito Funeral Home in San Benito. (Click the link below to view a live-stream of the memorial service.) Darius, devoted husband, father and friend to all will live forever in our hearts.